The Secret Sauce
(well not so secret😜)
Tell it like it is, straight up no chasers.
I don’t believe in sugar-coating stuff, there is far too much of that in the world already. Whether it’s content I share or content from someone who contributes to SSA, it will be served with no chaser.
Making you feel the passion.
This means not doing things halfway or halfheartedly (that’s just lazy). Your experience matters and includes ensuring you have access to great content and products to help you own your inner power.
Why so serious? You will find humour in topics of conversation as and where relevant because laughter is food for the soul after all.
No judge and jury here – save that shit for the courtroom.
So you like licking ass? Good for you! It’s not our place to judge what you enjoy getting up to in the bedroom or elsewhere…
True to the cause.
And that means being authentic and Audacious AF sometimes. Not everyone is going to agree with, or like what they read or hear and that’s fine.
That statement is one of the best things I’ve not only said to myself but also acted on.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying some form of sacrifice isn’t required to get to where you want to be, but I made the decision to move away from “living” a life that was based on sacrifice after sacrifice. No proper holiday for almost 10 years, being close to losing the roof over my head, going damn near broke, missing key moments and events in life and the list goes on!
In January 2019 I called my sister and said: “I don’t want to do it anymore”. I was referring to a membership platform I created in 2017 called Brands of Colour which was committed to helping black female entrepreneurs to step up, step out, own it and become more business savvy.
Brands of Colour was amazing, but I decided to pull the plug for my own sanity and it was a shock to many people, no one saw it coming. I was at a point where I had worked for myself since I was made redundant in April 2012 (entered permanent employment in July 2018). I needed a break, I needed to be free, I needed to breathe.
I was making bold moves, and in some aspects owning my inner power, and had helped so many people over the years, but I was giving too much of myself to others. I wasn’t living a life that felt good so I stopped and that felt freaking good, that’s when everything started to shift.
A weight had been lifted, and for the first time in a number of years, I allowed life to flow.
When I look back (mainly between 2013 and 2017) I wasn’t truly being honest with
myself and my audience at the time in terms of happening behind the scenes, but hey who really does even nowadays. Most of it was stuff which now, in a way, makes me cringe.
It makes me cringe not because I’m embarrassed or ashamed which is what the word is mostly associated with. It makes me cringe because I’m in a completely different space. My thinking has developed, my belief system is no longer the same and I have grown and evolved as a woman, but don’t get it twisted that has taken time, years!
By way of an example, I’ve had and have a great career, but I’ve had to fight to get to where I am in my life. I had years where I had to work 10 times harder because of the colour of my skin. I remember the times during my early 20’s where I would cry in the toilets at work because I was yet again overlooked for a promotion.
It wasn’t because I wasn’t good enough, it was because as a black woman I had to wait longer than anyone else – if you’re a black woman reading this you will understand.
Here I am now, studying to become a qualified yoga teacher. Aware of and thankful for the good things that happen in life, Not shrinking from threat, challenge, difficulty, or pain; speaking up for what’s right even if there’s opposition. Approaching life with excitement and energy, loving conversations about sex, being audacious as fuck – bold, confident, direct, fearless and assertive. Saying it like it is, straight up no chasers.
The opinions of others do not shape or define who I am or where I’m going. You don’t like me, cool the feeling may be mutual.🤷🏽♀️
I am audaciously committed to giving you the best of what I’m living and learning to help you live a life that feels good.
Reclaim your power by silencing the noise that is around you and has the ability to lead to comparison. When all that noise is silenced, you’ll start to create the space to own your inner power.
The woman behind She’s So Audacious™